Saturday, October 11, 2014

Leaving Time: A Novel

Title:  Leaving Time: A Novel
Author:  Jodi Picoult
Publication Information:  Ballantine Books. 2014. 416 pages.
ISBN:  0345544927 / 978-0345544926

Book Source:  I received this book through a publisher's giveaway free of cost in exchange for an honest review. Thank you Shelf Awareness!

Favorite Quote:  "I understand why Jenna needs this:  Otherwise, it's not a complete circle, it's a line, and lines unravel and send you off in directions you never intended to go. Endings are critical ... They need the details of those last few moments, because it is all they will have for the rest of their lives."

I did not see that ending coming! If you want to read this book, please do not read anything with a spoiler. You will not be able to read the book. It did remind me of one movie in particular, but I won't say what. That would completely give away the story.

Jenna is a precocious thirteen year old living with her grandmother. Her father Thomas is in a mental institution. Her mother Alice disappeared when Jenna was three. At that time, Thomas and Alice run an elephant sanctuary. Alice's specialty was studying elephant memory and grief and in rescuing at risk animals. The events at that time led to a woman's death, Alice's disappearance and the dismantling of the elephant sanctuary.

Jenna has no memory of the exact events that led to her mother's disappearance and her father's breakdown, and her grandmother won't speak of them. Yet, Jenna strongly believes that her mother would never have abandoned her. She studies what reminders she has left of Alice. She continually searches online to find some trace. Unfortunately, to no avail.

To further her search, she seeks out the help of a psychic Serenity. Serenity, at one point in her life, was a well known psychic. She is now what she refers to as a "swamp witch" - a fraud who makes up and delivers what her clients want to hear. After first refusing, she feels compelled to help Jenna.

Jenna also seeks out Virgil Stanhope, one of the detectives who investigated the events surrounding Alice's disappearance. He is no longer with the police force, working instead as a private detective. Alice's case is one that haunts him - the one that got away. What could he have done differently? What should he have done differently? Jenna's appearance in his life brings all these memories back, and he wants an answer.

The story is told in alternating first person narratives through Jenna, Virgil, Serenity, and Alice. From Jenna's perspective, we get the young woman who looks for closure and to finally know that she was not abandoned. From Virgil, we get the detective applying his contacts and his experience to solve a mystery that went unsolved years ago. Serenity brings in the spiritual dimension and the existence of ghosts and spirits who linger in this world. Alice's sections gradually fill in the story of what led to the events of that night. The suspense of actually happened that night lasts until almost the end the of the book and leads to an ending that was a complete surprise to me.

What I love about Jodi Picoult's books is that she tackles tough topics, and her books always leave me with new knowledge and with a lot to think about. The books present a primary point of view and do it well with research and a story that makes you read on and on until the very last page. As a reader, you can agree or disagree, but either way the point is well made. For most of her books, I usually find myself putting a lot of things in my life on hold to get to the end of the book. Then, I find myself putting them away, but continuing to think about them days later. This one follows the same pattern.

This book takes on the issue of grief. Wikipedia defines grief as "a multifaceted response to loss, particularly to the loss of someone or something that has died, to which a bond or affection was formed. Although conventionally focused on the emotional response to loss, it also has physical, cognitive, behavioral, social, spiritual, and philosophical dimensions."

Two things are clear from this definition. Grief, though normally associated with death, can occur as a result of any loss. Jenna grieves because she feels like her mother abandoned her. Virgil grieves for the unsolved case that haunts him still. Serenity grieves both for the burden that her skills as a psychic bring and the realizations that come with the loss of those skills. Alice, Thomas, Gideon, and Nevvi all grieve individually through their own sorrows.

Grief also manifests itself differently in each person - physically, emotionally, behaviorally, and spiritually. The reactions to grief and the actions grief can lead to are completely individual. Jenna refuses to quit searching for her mother. Serenity regrets the loss of her abilities but at the same time hides from the notoriety her abilities brought. Virgil walks away and attempts to forget through drinking. Alice disappears. Thomas suffers a breakdown. Others seek revenge from what they identify as the cause of their grief. Different people, different responses.

This book addresses grief through the human characters, of course. It also presents a lot of research on elephant behavior and memory - particularly the elephant's ability to grieve. The parallels are amazing. The PBS documentary Unforgettable Elephants makes the point that "Through years of research, scientists have found that elephants are capable of complex thought and deep feeling. In fact, the emotional attachment elephants form toward family members may rival our own." The author's note at the end of this book presents additional resources and ways in which an interested reader can impact conservation of these amazing animals.

In an interview, Jodi Picoult describes the book as follows: "This is a book about the lengths we go to for those who have left us behind; about the staying power of love; and about how three broken souls might have just the right pieces to mend each other. I won’t tell you much more, but I guarantee that when you finish, the first thing you’re going to want to do is reread the book." Pretty much. I want to reread the book to see if I could have seen the ending coming. I don't necessarily agree with everything she has to say, but I so always appreciate the way in which she says it. I also cannot wait to see what Jodi Picoult tackles next.


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Wednesday, October 8, 2014

Little Mercies

Title:  Little Mercies
Author:  Heather Gudenkauf
Publication Information:  Harlequin MIRA. 2014. 320 pages.
ISBN:  0778316335 / 978-0778316336

Book Source:  I received this book through a publisher's giveaway free of cost in exchange for an honest review.

Favorite Quote:  "I guess what I'm trying to say is that we all have our moments. We all have those times when we turn our backs, close our eyes, become unguarded ... I know that no matter what happens you'll get through this. We'll get through this. You have to look for the little mercies, the small kindnesses and good that come from the terrible."

Little Mercies takes on the issue of child welfare system from two perspectives. Ellen Moore is an experienced social worker with a family of her own. Jenny Baird is a ten-year old girl who has been in the system and is now trying to stay out of it.

Ellen is devoted to her work and her family. She is pulled between the conflicting demands of her career, her husband, her children, and her mother. She is trying to juggle all the balls and is constantly running from one to the other. One day, a crisis in her job and her attention leads to an accident that has a huge life altering effect on her family. Is it neglect? Is it an accident? Is it abuse? What happens when a caretaker of the system becomes one of the accused?

Jenny Baird is a little girl living with her father - no job, no money, no home. Circumstances put her in a new town all alone with only the hope of finding her grandmother based on an address on an old letter. Jenny's life has been a constant struggle to survive. Her greatest fear is ending up back in the foster care system.

The characters in the book - particularly Ellen, Jenny, and Ellen's mother Maudene - are well drawn. The other characters - Ellen's husband, the children, Ellen's friend Joe - exist on the periphery and are not really fleshed out, but the story is really about Ellen, Jenny, and Maudene.

Ellen's struggle to balance career and home, especially a career as emotionally draining as hers, is a struggle that many people can relate to. Her realization of how little separates her and some of clients is a life lesson that many of us need to learn. We don't know the struggles of any other person; yet, often, we stand in judgement of their actions. Ellen at one point says, "if I ever was able to be a social worker again, I would look at my clients a little bit differently, with a bit more empathy."

Jenny's struggle to survive and her fears come through clearly in the book. Her statements of fear of police and social workers. Her attachment to her backpack. Her need to hoard food. Her reaction to Ellen's children who are surrounded by a loving family. Her need to find a family and a connection no matter how troubled it may be. At times, Jenny sounds older than her age, but perhaps that is because of the life she has led.

Maudene's character is the nurturer. She is the mother and the grandmother - the one who loves selflessly and cares for all those around her. Her loneliness since her husband's death is captured and described subtly throughout the book. Her need to find a connection and be needed is perhaps as strong as Jenny's need for a family.

My concern with this book is that the plot seems contrived. Too many coincidences come about for the story to unfold exactly as it does. I won't say what happens, but I will say that all the dots connect a little too easily. The book ends too neatly. You know where the book is going, but it is an engaging read to get there.


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Monday, October 6, 2014

Many Lives, Many Masters: The True Story of a Prominent Psychiatrist, His Young Patient, and the Past-Life Therapy That Changed Both Their Lives

Title:  Many Lives, Many Masters: The True Story of a Prominent Psychiatrist, His Young Patient, and the Past-Life Therapy That Changed Both Their Lives
Author:  Brian L. Weiss
Publication Information:  Fireside. 1988. 219 pages.
ISBN:  0671657860 / 978-0671657864

Book Source:  I read this book as this month's selection for my local book club.

Favorite Quote:  "It is important to weed out the false from the true so that the field is not discredited."

Many Lives, Many Masters: The True Story of a Prominent Psychiatrist, His Young Patient, and the Past-Life Therapy That Changed Both - a long title for a relatively short book. The "prominent psychiatrist" is Brian Weiss whose credentials include Columbia University and the Yale University School of Medicine. The "young patient" is Catherine, who came to Dr. Weiss at the age of twenty seven suffering from anxieties and fears. The "past-life therapy" is the main focus of this book.

The first eighteen months of therapy for Catherine utilized conventional methods but with little or no success.  At that time, the therapy was modified to try hypnosis. Through hypnosis, Catherine recalled memories of past lives - many many past lives reaching back centuries. Further on through hypnosis, Dr. Weiss led Catherine through memories of the times in between lives when the Masters spoke. The Masters brought lessons and guidance - you can put your own interpretation as to who these Masters may be. After the sessions, Catherine had no recollection of these Masters. It appeared that they spoke to and for Dr. Weiss. The therapy continued until Catherine's symptoms were deemed cured. This time period and process is what this book describes.

Two ways exist for me to analyze and review this book. One is to present my assessment of the content. That I will not do. Whether someone believes in reincarnation and past lives is a personal choice. My choice may not reflect yours. Nor would it invalidate yours. To you is your belief. To me is mine.

The second way to analyze this book is to look at it as a book and as a book coming from a scientific environment with theory and evidence. Looked at in this way, this is not the book for me.

Every chapter of the book is essentially the same. Catherine comes into a session. She remembers a past life - life, sometimes trauma, and death - and describes it under hypnosis. Sometimes, the Masters speak after Catherine has died in that past life. The book never progresses beyond that description. It contains no analysis at all. At time, it references that other research exists and other case studies exist to parallel Catherine's case, but the book never elaborates. I found myself skimming through sections trying to find a place where the book brings the research together to state a thesis or a conclusion. It never comes.

This book is essentially a case study of one patient - Catherine. Unfortunately, the tone of the book is very condescending towards Catherine. Her perspective and insight on her experience is never discussed. At one point, the book refers to her as "simple," "not a scholar," and with certain knowledge "lying beyond her capacity." Even the title refers to her as "his young patient" even though she was close to thirty years old at the start of therapy. Meanwhile, on the first page of the book, the book clearly states the author's credentials -  Phi Beta Kappa, magna cum laude education at Columbia and his degree from Yale University. Even in the title, the book refers to "a prominent psychiatrist." The entire tone of the book is very off-putting.

The other aspect of this book is that of a self-help manual. The Masters speak through Catherine to bring messages about life and life skills. The self-help advice is not new and not anything that cannot found in many other books in that genre. Unfortunately, given the tone and lack of explanation in this book, it loses credibility.

Another concern is that this case study blurs the line between clinician and patient. Although based on Catherine's experience as a patient, the book reads as though it is really about the psychiatrist and his experience. Catherine seems helped by her memories but has no recollection of the Masters. It is stated several times through the book that the Masters are there for Dr. Weiss. Towards the end of the book, the author acknowledges, "Under ordinary circumstances, we might have begun terminating therapy weeks ago. We had continued in part because of my interest in the message from the Master..." That raises many concerns about the role of the clinician and which took precedence - the clinician needs or Catherine's.

Book Club side note: This book ended up being a relatively short discussion because for the most part, we agreed in our assessment. Most of us agreed on the condescending tone and repetitive nature of the book. Some of us were able to separate out the self-help component of the messages from the Masters. This led to an interesting discussion on beliefs and life choices.


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Thursday, October 2, 2014

A Sudden Light

Title:  A Sudden Light
Author:  Garth Stein
Publication Information:  Simon & Schuster. 2014. 416 pages.
ISBN:  1439187037 / 978-1439187036

Book Source:  I received this book as a publisher's galley through Edelweiss free of cost in exchange for an honest review.

Favorite Quote:  "Perhaps that's what life is about - the search for such a connection. The search for magic. The search for the inexplicable. Not in order to explain it, or contain it. Simply in order to feel it. Because in that recognition of the sublime, we see for a moment the entire universe in the palm of our hand. And in that moment, we touch the face of God."

A beautiful setting, a Gothic feel, a ghostly mystery, a dysfunctional family. This book has all the making of an engaging tale. Trevor Riddell is a man telling the story of the summer he was fourteen, of the family secrets he discovered that summer, and of the changes that happened that summer.

This story has many, many (too many perhaps) layers:
  • Trevor as an adult reflecting back.
  • Trevor as a fourteen year old trying to mend his parent's marriage and figure out the secrets of his father's past.
  • Relationship between Trevor's parents.
  • Jones Riddell, Trevor's father returning to his childhood home after 23 years.
  • Relationship between Jones, his sister Serena, and their father Samuel.
  • Ghosts of Riddell House
  • Previous generations - conflicted Benjamin, business baron Elijah, and those around them.
  • Riddell House itself.
An attempt is made to weave a mystery around these different elements and the way in which they relate, but at the base of it all, the story is about a dysfunctional family and the power of relationships to build up and to destroy. Homosexuality and its unacceptability at that time in history, abuse, incest, dementia, other illnesses, and financial & business maneuverings all play a role in this family's past.

My favorite aspects of the book are the cover and the writing itself. The cover is part of what attracted me to the book. The descriptions of the house itself and the estate are as artistic as the cover. The Riddell family fortune comes from timber; the descriptions of the trees and forests seek to portray someone "experiencing the nature of the trees." The descriptions show a very clear environmental bent in the sometimes conflicting goals of business and environmental protection. An important and much needed message for our world. In the book, however, it is overshadowed by the machinations of the Riddell family. Their conflicts may be based on this more universal one, but the book really is about the individuals and the relationships.

Weaved throughout are also references to books and reading, which as an avid reader, I of course love! "With a book - presuming it's a good book - you can depend upon an outcome that adheres to the necessities of drama. The question will be answered. It has to be. The answer may not be happy; we can't guarantee a comedy. Sometimes tragedy strikes. But there will be a conclusion. Of that we can be sure. That's the whole point of a book." Based on the writing, I would definitely read other works by Garth Stein.

Overall, the book, however, does not work for me for a number of reasons. First, I guessed the resolution of the book quite early on. That completely removes the book's ghostly nature, not that it is that strong to begin with. The rest of the story then becomes just a matter of how the book gets to that eventual conclusion. Second, the narrator does not come across as believable. Even in the sections where is portrayed as fourteen year old, "Clever Trevor's" dialogue and actions come across as those of an adult. Finally, the setup and description of the story is of a spooky, somewhat Gothic tale; it is disappointing when the story does not deliver that. The story does a great buildup; there is a sense of something coming and something about to happen, but it never really does. The book delivers a multigenerational family saga with its own conflicts and intrigues but does not fulfill the promise of its description.


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Sunday, September 28, 2014

Mademoiselle: Coco Chanel and the Pulse of History

Title:  Mademoiselle: Coco Chanel and the Pulse of History
Author:  Rhonda K. Garelick
Publication Information:  Random House. 2014. 608 pages.
ISBN:  1400069521 / 978-1400069521

Book Source:  I received this book as a publisher's galley through NetGalley free of cost in exchange for an honest review.

Favorite Quote:  "Coco saw the body as a moving, breathing, sexually alive entity, which needed to be dressed as such. Chanel was doing more than inventing a new way of dressing; she was inventing a new way of being."

Coco Chanel spent her childhood in an orphanage, and apparently, spent the rest of her life trying to reinvent herself beyond that beginning. She was ashamed and sought to hide it by constantly creating a new story for herself and to seek relationships that would provide her a route to a society that seemed beyond her reach.

Much of the book is organized around relationships Coco Chanel had with different men in her life:
  • Etiennne Balsan, the scion of a wealthy industrialist family
  • Arthur "Boy" Capel, an English polo player
  • Grand Duke Dimitri, one of the Romanovs to escape Russia
  • Pierre Reverdy, a French poet
  • Hugh Richard Arthur Grosvenor, 2nd Duke of Westminster

Some of these affairs lasted for years. Several of the men supported her business ventures and applauded her successes. Yet, none married her, and none gave her entree into the high society, which appeared closed to her because of her background. "Essentially, Chanel would marry her only faithful partner:  work."

This is the first book I have read about Coco Chanel or the history of the Chanel brand. I read it expecting to learn about how Coco Chanel and the brand she created became what it is - a symbol of "class" and luxury. I expected to learn about the development of the fashion industry and of the brand in particular.

Unfortunately, this book does not really serve that function. It is a biography of Coco Chanel - but the person and the time she lived in not the businesswoman who created a world-renowned luxury brand. To some extent, the book could have been titled Coco Chanel and Her Men or Coco Chanel, version 1, version 2, version 3, and so on.

The book goes through multiple iterations of the fact that Coco continually attempted to reinvent her past and the story she presented to the world:
  • "Coco confused herself with the female character she had imposed upon all of Paris."
  • "Her life was another commodity, a movie for the world to see, with costumes available for sale." 
  • "Coco preferred to see herself as she had convinced the world to see her:  an icon of belonging and connection on the grandest but least personal scale imaginable."

After the first couple of times, this gets repetitive. It's background information for what she overcame, but to me, it's not the story itself. The relationships in her life had a significant influence on the development of Coco's career; yet, I would think there would be more beyond that - her work, her creativity, her fortitude. That aspect becomes subsumed under the relationships described in the book.

The book also seems to have a somewhat negative tone throughout:
  • "When in a fever of creation, Coco often confused animate and inanimate objects. Her models complained that she routinely stuck her dressmaker pins right through their flesh during fittings, laughing when they yelped."
  • "Chanel's response to the strike revealed her increasing bitterness - how quick she was to anger and how little empathy she permitted herself to feel."
  • "Coco could seem disdainful and snobbish."
  • "She already had a long history of feathering her own nest with whatever opportunity fate offered."
  • "Coco seemed reluctant to acknowledge the effort and gifts of her many employees."

The facts may very well be accurate, but the tone makes me feel like I want to check the facts against a differently written biography. This one feels like it gives more of an opinion on the life of Coco Chanel rather than just the facts of her life. I prefer to be given the facts and allowed to form my own opinion.


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Wednesday, September 24, 2014

Madame Picasso

Title:  Madame Picasso
Author:  Anne Girard
Publication Information:  Harlequin MIRA. 2014. 432 pages.
ISBN:  0778316351 / 978-0778316350

Book Source:  I received this book through a publisher's giveaway free of cost in exchange for an honest review.

Favorite Quote:  "Who truly knew the private world of any two people and what their limits were with one another?"

Several books I have read over the past couple of years present a fictionalized account of a relationship of a famous person of history:

  • Mrs. Hemingway is the story of the four wives of Ernest Hemingway.
  • Under the Wide and Starry Sky is the story of Fanny Osbourne and Robert Loius Stevenson.
  • I Always Loved You is about the relationship between Edgar Degas and Mary Cassatt.
  • Mrs. Poe tells the story of Edgar Allen Poe, his wife Virginia, and Frances "Fanny" Osgood.
  • The Paris Wife is another story about Ernest Hemingway and his marriage to Elizabeth Hadley Richardson.
Each book shares the idea of depicting both a relationship and a time in history. They all do so with a varying degree of success and a shifting balance between the history and the individual story.

Madame Picasso, as the title implies, is a story about Pablo Picasso. Over the course of his life, Picasso had relationships with many women. Seven of the relationships are considered serious - lasting a length of time and having an impact on his art. The women in his life often became the muse for the artist. That intense impact is wonderfully captured in this book.

This book tells the story of a four year period in Picasso's life when he meets and becomes involved with Eva Gouel, or Marcell Humbert as she is called in Paris.  Eva was a young Polish woman, who runs away from home as her parents tried to push her into the expected life of marriage and housekeeping.

She comes to Paris to make her way and finds a job as a seamstress at the Moulin Rouge. It is in the glitter and glamour of Paris that she meets Picasso. At the time, Picasso is in a long standing relationship with an artist's model named Fernande Olivier. The two are an accepted couple in their social circle to the point that Fernande often refers to herself as Madame Picasso.

The relationship between Picasso and Eva grows. What happens in this love triangle and how is the crux of this book. Warning:  If you don't already know the story of Picasso and Eva, please do not research it before reading this book. Knowing how it ends will definitely impact your reaction to the story. The events are strong enough that the author has included an explanation in an interview included with the book. "We can't judge decision too harshly unless we have been not only in that place, but in their mind and heart." Reading this book will not be the same experience if you know how it ends.

The core of this book is very much a relationship between two individuals. In that way, this book is a romance novel. As a romance, the book's descriptions are too explicit and too frequent for my taste. I don't have a need to know that Picasso would paint in the nude, having just gotten out from his bed where Eva still lounged. Physical appearance is an important trait to both, and changes in physical appearance become a key element in the book, but the book does not need as many descriptions of physical acts as were present.

Other than that, the book is fascinating for its historical context. It brings to life the passion and intensity of Picasso. Surrounding him are other individuals from that time period. People like Gertrude Stein, Alice B. Toklas, poet Guillaume Apollinaire, painter Louis Marcoussis, and cubist painter Georges Braque. This historical framework, for me, is one of the most interesting aspects of the book.

Eva's character is also beautifully drawn through the book. Her strength and independence shine through as do her caring and vulnerability. According to the Author's Note, the inspiration for the details of the character comes primarily from studying Picasso's works that depict Eva and from Eva's correspondence with Gertrude Stein and Alice Toklas. As such, it appears that great care has been given to provide historical accuracy to the love story.

"Relationships are a journey." This book takes us on an emotional journey through this very intense relationship.


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Sunday, September 21, 2014

Never Eat Alone, Expanded and Updated: And Other Secrets to Success, One Relationship at a Time

Title:  Never Eat Alone, Expanded and Updated: And Other Secrets to Success, One Relationship at a Time
Author:  Keith Ferrazzi, Tahl Raz
Publication Information:  Crown Business. 2014 (expanded edition). 400 pages.
ISBN:  0385346654 / 978-0385346658

Book Source:  I received this book as a publisher's galley through Edelweiss free of cost in exchange for an honest review. Thank you Blogging for Books!

Favorite Quote:  "How much you give to the people you come into contact with determines how much you'll receive in return. In other words, if you want to make friends and get things done, you have to put yourself out to do things for other people - things that require time, energy, and consideration."

In its narrowest interpretation, Never Eat Alone is a book about networking. In the broadest interpretation, it is a philosophy of life.

With an undergraduate education at Yale and a business degree from Harvard Business School, Keith Ferrazzi began his career by becoming the youngest partner ever at Deloitte and Touche. He has gone on to be named one of the "most connected" people in the world by Forbes and one of the top "40 under 40" leaders by Craig's business. The author's credentials are presented in the first chapter of the book, and he uses examples from his own life throughout.

Never Eat Alone was first published in 1995; this new edition includes updates for the age of social media and enormous amounts of digital information. The book is organized into five sections:
  • Mindset - the focus on creating value and relationships that are mutually beneficial.
  • Skill Set - specific steps to building and expanding your network, ranging from research and cold calls to conference techniques and super connectors.
  • Turning connections into compatriots - discussion of human psychological needs and the role they play in building relationships.
  • Connecting in the digital age - strategies for effective networking in the digital age and for the effective use of social media.
  • Trading up and giving back - the idea of continuing to grow and expand your network with recognition that everyone will do this on a different level based on what each individual's goal is.
Short insets throughout the book present profiles of individuals in the author's "Connectors' Hall of Fame" - individuals who can be used as case studies in effective network building. The examples range from the Dalai Lama to Dale Carnegie.

What I really appreciate about this book is the fact that its focus is on building relationships that are mutually beneficial. "Connecting is a philosophy of life, a worldview. Its guiding principle is that people, all people, every person you meet, is an opportunity to help and be helped."  In that sense, this is part business book and part a self-help book. The tools and strategies presented can and should be used in the business, but they truly can be used in different aspects of our lives. No matter what we do, relationships are often at the heart of it. "In the end, we all live one life. And that life is all about the people we live it with."

The book tackles head on the bad reputation that "networking" has gotten. With chapters like "The Networking Jerk" and "Warming the Cold Call", the book presents the route to networking that you don't want to take. It draws the distinction between "networking" and "connecting - sharing my knowledge and resources, time and energy, friends and associates, and empathy and compassion in a continual effort to provide value to other, while coincidentally increasing my own." The descriptions of the "networking jerk" are amusing to read, while you nod your head in agreement.

The book is very easily and quickly read; the skills usable. It recognizes that not everyone will take network building to the expansive level that Keith Ferrazzi has, but it presents the strategies that can be used no matter what your goal. The author's website has Free Resources to accompany this book.

The bottom line reason that the book resonates with me is that I have always been a believer in that the good you put out into the world comes back to you and that everyone you meet in life has the potential to teach you something. The philosophy behind this book relies on those two principles. Thus, it works with my world view.

At the end of the day, you can read all the books you want. You can do all the theoretically learning possible. You can follow all the experts. The question still remains ...

"Can you walk the talk? It's easy for someone to say, 'I care about people I believe in helping and being helped. I believe that helping people become healthy or make money or raise successful children is paramount in life.' Many people say those things - but then you see their actions, you hear about them from their own networks, and you discover they really don't believe any of it. You can be sure your network will broadcast your true colors very quickly and with lasting effects to all its members."

The choice is yours. Always has been. Always will be. If you make the choice, this book has the framework to implement it.


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